As I pressed the button on the elevator I couldn't. Notice the coolness of the surface beneath my thumb. The indifference of my companion was palpable reflecting in his expressionless face as he stared at the ascending numbers above the door. A silence settled between us vibrating through the walls. It wasn't our encounter. It felt like a replay of an old sitcom—predictable, scripted, and devoid of any genuine connection. It seemed like he didn't even acknowledge my presence.
My thoughts drifted towards my sanctuary—These Fukken Feelings, a podcast dedicated to health. It's a place where I find solace in delving into stories to mine—stories of feeling invisible and unheard. This platform is not. Embraces the raw authenticity of emotions.
Navigating through space while feeling invisible can be incredibly challenging. So how does one cope with it? From my experiences, I've discovered that the support of a community is crucial. Just as the saying goes "It takes a village "The same applies to navigating the intricacies of our well-being. Finding a sanctuary among minded individuals organizations or attending conferences can provide a needed recharge before returning to environments that undermine one's self-worth.
However what, about the individuals who are watching this episode? They might begin to believe that they will never be able to overcome their circumstances. They may observe the gap between their reality and the opportunities that I have been fortunate enough to receive. So my message to them is straightforward yet deeply meaningful. Don't underestimate yourself.
Always remember, you have the power to shape your destiny. The vibes you emit are what you attract. Therefore cultivate a mindset. Surround yourself with people who uplift you share your dreams and ambitions and seek guidance from mentors. Explore scholarships, and connect with profit organizations that provide college access and support programs. Build your network. Leverage the resources available to you.
Let me share my story as an example. Despite experiencing the loss of my parents at an age being the person in my family to attend college and facing financial struggles to pursue my education I persevered. These challenges ignited a desire within me to give back which led me to establish two scholarships under my name. It was a step, in a realm of need but it represented a glimmer of hope for students who are walking the path I once traveled.
Throughout this journey, there were moments of self-doubt when I questioned whether I was conforming much. Should I conform to my natural Afro hairstyle to fit in with the world? Should I embrace my unique identity even if it means facing marginalization?
As I've gained wisdom over time I've come to the realization that compromising myself's not the path I should take. Each of us should follow what feels right. Brings us comfort. Being empowers us. Serves as a guiding light, for self-love in a world that is often quick to judge.
Today as a Dr. Angela Harris I want to share a three-step process for those who wish to break free from constraints and embrace their personal power. It involves rediscovering our talents letting go of self-doubt and striving for greatness. It entails recognizing our core values reframing thoughts and shifting our mindset to approach every situation with positivity.
The truth is, life may not always acknowledge our worth. We may encounter moments in elevators. Find ourselves overshadowed by others. However, we must remember that our value does not diminish based on someone's inability to see it.. Although it may be challenging each new day grants us the strength to face these obstacles again. Reader you possess power.
Your spirit is resilient. Every time you stumble you rise up stronger, than before. Always keep in mind that success is not, about avoiding failure but rather about getting up each time you stumble. So brush off the cloak of invisibility. Let your brilliance shine for the world to see! It's all about envisioning a future and setting goals that align with that vision. Together we'll create a roadmap tailored to your ambitions and unique journey.
What makes this transformative process more fulfilling is the support, accountability, and mentorship I offer. I don't believe in a one size fits all solution; instead, I'll customize this journey exclusively for you by considering your dreams, strengths, and personal hurdles. Our aim isn't to survive but to thrive and soar!
In addition to client engagement, I strongly emphasize the importance of building a community. We all crave a tribe that truly understands us acknowledges our challenges and stands by us through thick and thin. Being part of such a network can significantly boost our resilience in the face of adversity. Even though you might feel unnoticed, in some situations remember that within this tribe you are seen, respected, and valued.
Lastly, let's not forget the power of education—an equalizer of opportunities. To all the individuals who may doubt their potential and whether they'll have the opportunities, as me Dr. Angela, I want to assure you that you absolutely can. Don't discount yourself. Remember, the energy you radiate is what you attract. Surround yourself with people who uplift you. Share your dreams loud seek guidance from mentors pursue scholarships. Never lose faith in your own abilities.
Looking back on my journey I recall being a first-generation college student facing the challenge of losing both my parents and struggling to afford my education. However, I. Went on to establish scholarships so that others won't have to go through hardships. As a result, three students have successfully graduated from Drexel University with the assistance of the scholarship program I initiated. This serves as a testament that it's not about support but also about building connections providing guidance and mentoring students to keep them on the right path.
Lastly, let's address a topic that often goes unspoken. Fitting into the world. Should you conform to your appearance? Change your hairstyle to meet norms. My perspective is simple: do what feels authentic, to you. In the stages of my career, I too hesitated to wear braids in a setting. However, I have come to firmly believe in embracing my identity with pride. If it takes time to reach this level of confidence then growing older must truly be a blessing.
If you're tired of feeling like a victim and want to start winning come join me on this journey. Let's discover your talents let go of self-doubt and together rise to greatness. Always remember, you have the ability to reshape your story. This is your narrative and only you can create it. So shall we begin?
As the 'These Fukken Feelings' podcast puts it these experiences, challenges, and victories are more than emotions. They are the truths that shape us the stories that define us and the passions that motivate us. Let's continue to elevate ourselves inspire others and empower one another every day. Because within this community we are seen, heard, and unstoppable!
Please remember that no matter who you are or where you are, in life your emotions are valid they have significance. They can drive you towards reaching your potential. Remember, when we lift others up we also rise. Let's maintain a conversation and embrace these 'Fukken Feelings together.